Simple Sixes: A Guide for Parents

Simple Sixes: A Guide for Parents Part Two of Six
Lovable and Capable:
Children need to to shown and told that we love them unconditionally. They need to be shown and told that they are capable of mastering tasks, problem solving and decision making. This is both verbal and non-verbal. Non-Verbal means "wordless messages"- you are engaging in eye contact. Other examples are a wink, nod,smile, hug or thumbs up. Let's remember that actions speak louder than words! Verbal means we are offering specific encouragement and praise. We reinforce their efforts in trying to achieve a goal. We teach and model complimenting each other. We praise them and follow up with a positive statement. For example: You can say " I like your choice of the red shorts with the yellow tank top. You are great at picking out your clothes! "
This week try to watch yourself enhance your child's feelings of "lovable and capable"!!!